With the migration of performance anxiety from academics to sex, whose metrics are we using to grade (judge) ourselves?

What does it mean to be me? This beloved thing that I’ve moved around for the past 30 years, this holds a part of me. People hold these parts, too. There are parts of me with you.

Fellow surrogate partner therapist, Janet Treviño, and I watch the reality show “Virgin Island” and provide commentary along the way.