An Intimacy Guide, Writer,
Sex and Relationship Coach,
Trauma Informed Yoga Teacher
Dismantling people pleasing for embodied intimacy
Selfish Sexuality is...
Embodiment revolution
Putting the power in your own hands
Vulnerable Deliberate
Well resourced Self-authored pleasure
Interdependent rather than co-dependent
In a relationship of consent with our bodies
Self-regulating Re-writing your story
Attuning to another who sees you as whole
Liberation
Selfish Sexuality is not
unkind
without awareness
only focused on yourself
Exploring new identities often happens in the realm of sex and intimacy, where we test out different versions of ourselves before fully embracing them. I believe this is partly why ghosting has become so prevalent. We crave a deep connection, but when we become uncertain about how to communicate our evolving identity, we may retreat and disconnect. Transforming into a new version of ourselves can feel daunting and disorienting, and it requires honesty and a sense of safety. This is where an intimacy guide can be invaluable. Selfish Sexuality is a coaching service that teaches intimacy and erotism so that you may have find liberation in your sexuality. Learn more on the Selfish Sexuality offerings page.