Selfish Sexuality is...

Liberation

Interdependent rather than co-dependent

Re-writing your story

Attuning to another who sees you as whole

Dismantling people pleasing

In a relationship of consent with our bodies

Self-authored pleasure

Embodied intimacy

Selfish Sexuality is not

unkind
without awareness
only focused on yourself

"The quality of your relationships is what

determines the quality of your life."

- Esther Perel

In relationships is often where we try on new versions of ourselves, like that ambitious stack of clothes in a fitting room. But exploring your identity isn't as simple as trying on fashion trends.

That's where Selfish Sexuality comes in (and no, we're not talking about that one ex who never reciprocated). Selfish Sexuality offers sex and relationship coaching and surrogate partner therapy. As a certified sexologist with the American Board of Sexology, I help people who feel stuck, confused, or unfulfilled transform their intimate lives. Do you want...

to discover your core desire and experience the best sex possible?
build confidence that's as solid as your boundaries?
to address mismatched libidos or communication breakdowns?

Confidence is the successful repetition of endeavors. Whether you're single or partnered the Selfish Sexuality approach uses experiential learning that puts theory into practice building your confidence one step at a time. 90% of clients develop deeper, more fulfilling relationships within 3 months.

Book a free consultation today. Because life's too short for bad sex and mediocre connections. Step into your new identity wholly, securely. This isn't just coaching – it's an embodiment revolution.

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Testimonials

"After feeling like I was hitting a dead end with traditional talk therapy, I decided to try surrogate partner therapy. The decision to go this route was scary, but the results with Miranda have been absolutely worth it.

In surrogate partner therapy, I began to truly understand how I perceived myself and others when it came to intimacy. Even during moments when I had to confront difficult emotions and hard truths, I still felt safe opening up and working with Miranda.

Having the chance to explore, take things slowly, and be guided by a partner who helped me externalize what I was feeling in the moment was one of the best investments I’ve made in my well-being. I'm much more confident and, in general, feel liberated."

- Katie, 35